Why Relationships are failing these days?

Times have changed and it’s no surprise. Along with it, the Whole dating world has taken a spin. Commitment is overwhelming for people. Relationships that aren’t toxic are hard to find. Where did we go wrong?

Dating people has become convenient since dating apps are launched. With that, Finding a genuine connection is harder than ever. If you do end up meeting someone, some issue or other breaks it away. It makes you wonder

Did the relationship has changed or people’s expectations have change? Relationships are the work of two people. One can’t sail the boat alone. Building a healthy relationship is not easy yet it bears the most fruit if it’s nurtured carefully. Problems are inevitable in any relationship. If you can focus on solving the problem together instead of fighting each other, that relationship can thrive with the winds.

It’s concerning how easily can people end relationships rather than working on it. Well, this post is for people who want to make their relationship work. What are the common causes that break the relationship?

Lets shed some light over it and how to work through that problem.

TRUST ISSUES

We live in a world where getting suspicious is normal but trusting people easily is not. Trust issues are old baggage for many people after being with someone who broke their trust. It gets passed from relationship to relationship OR can grow in current relationship if their partner’s behaviour is contradictory.

What is Trust Issue? When one person in a relationship don’t trust their partner. It could be due to past history or due to the damage of lying. Without trust, no relationship can move forward.

Trust issues is hard weed to pull out however with right conversation, it can be worked over. Transparency is the key solve this matter. If two people can be absolute vulnerable and share their insecurities with no judgement – It build new kind of Trust that is capable of healing other wounds.

Effort in Actions

With Dating Apps ready to replace your current girlfriend, Its harder to make people put effort for one relationship only with one person. One problem is enough for people to give up on their current progress with someone and find entirely a new person.

Its a delusional to think that there are a lot of choices in the dating pool. You may pick any person but it would still need efforts, dedication and attention to flourish that relation, One person’s efforts can’t make up for both the people. Your partner needs to be as dedicated as you are to build a healthy relationship.

If your partner provides bare minimum or doesn’t appreciate you, its enough to damage the relationship. It will create friction and slowly the love will wither away. You have the option to settle for less or change your settings.

To speak of it openly with your partner is necessary otherwise they’ll never know how you feel about it. If you see change in their actions, their love is still profound for you. If you don’t- simply give them space to figure out what do they want.

CAN’T ADAPT

Its 2020 and in this time, nobody wants to adjust easily. People would rather break up with their partner than to compromise a little. We all have become so strong-headed and independent that we hesitate before adjusting our time and routine for someone else. Its important in relations to make time for your partner, to stay loyal and eventually you would have to prioritize your partner’s happiness but some people will not budge. They want to do things according to their own time and mood.

Some people see adjustment as giving up and that where the relationship failed.

COMPATIBILITY

Compatibility simply means you enjoy each other’s company, work your way out and can have a good time. Your partner understands your viewpoint and shares similar views as well. However, when you are with someone opposite of you, Compatibility can be an issue in this case. For instance, If you are a quiet person generally but you chose a partner who likes to talk a lot, then it can be difficult for you to voice out all your feelings and issues and for that matter, your partner can become dominant on you.

OUTGROW THEM

People change over time and that includes your partner. You could be together with someone for 10 years and still after all those years, you might not see anything common with that man. Why? simply because you have outgrown them. If you are in the ’20s, your life changes a lot, you mould yourself to be the better version, to attain your goals. If your partner doesn’t grow out of phases in his life and get mature with time, you will start losing love for them and Vice Versa.

If you want to grow old with them, you need to grow together. Otherwise, love will fade away from your relation.